Break-ups are just simply a tragedy that no one dies in — but you definitely feel the loss.
One day, I visited my grandmother and she’s always been able to tell when I’m sad without me saying much of anything. She knew my situation, but I hadn’t updated her –but she already knew. “Niseya, do what I say now just read your bible. Start at Psalms -don’t matter if you understand or not just keep reading. Oh and here,” she handed me a folded magazine page.
I didn’t read it right away, so I stuck it my purse, finished my time with my grandmother, and read it when I got home:
This is the actual article written by Hattie Gossett, an African-American playwright, poet, and magazine editor; and the second piece is by Rhonda Findling an international acclaimed author. As you can see, this article was written in Essence Magazine –June 1995.
I immediately called my granny! “Have long have you had this?”
She said,”I got it back in 1995 and had it in some papers I was going through, and put it back in my Bible –must be for a time such as this.”
Though loss and detachment isn’t one of my strongest qualities (I have no problem admitting to), I don’t take for granted the lessons learned from inconveniences. I thought it would only be right to share this.
***Thank you Grandma for always sharing tools to sustain the heart of gold with your love, wisdom, and kindness. I love you.